June 22, 2026

A Father’s Day Special The Blueprint of Us Featuring Dad Tom

Show Notes

Most families have stories, but few are filled with the grit, love, and laughter of Bryan and John’s dad—an immigrant, public servant, and master fixer whose journey from Cuba to building communities in South Florida is nothing short of inspiring.

In this heartfelt and humorous episode, Bryan and John sit down with their legendary father, Tom Ruiz, to peel back the layers of a life defined by determination, culture, and unconditional love. Tom’s story is a blueprint for resilience—leaving Cuba with just twenty-seven dollars, working tirelessly in construction and public service, and ultimately building infrastructure that transformed entire cities like Miami Gardens.

Yet beyond the blueprints and project sites, it’s his unwavering family bond, hilarious anecdotes, and deep commitment to passing down a legacy of hard work that truly shine. From fixing broken steamers and flying tiny helicopters with his kids to embracing their truths with open arms, Tom’s life exemplifies how grit and heart create a lasting impact.

Key Takeaways From This Episode:

From $27 to Building Cities: Tom’s incredible journey from arriving as a Cuban immigrant to transforming South Florida’s infrastructure.
The DIY Spirit: How childhood curiosity and a passion for fixing things laid the foundation for a brilliant career in public service.
Overcoming Obstacles with Love: Navigating cultural shifts and personal milestones—including a beautiful, loving reflection on his kids coming out.
The Power of Community: How a tight-knit Cuban community in Florida became the bedrock for lifelong bonds and success.
Redefining Legacy: What it truly means to build something lasting that goes way beyond bricks and mortar.

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Chapters

00:00 Family Ties and Cultural Roots

02:22 The Determination to Fix

05:09 Journey from Cuba to America

08:00 Creating Lasting Memories

10:43 Acceptance and Understanding

13:44 Pride in Public Service

16:33 Building a Legacy

19:52 Retirement and New Adventures

22:52 Fun and Games with Dad

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