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Aug. 26, 2026

Meet Joseph Lucido | Building a Career, Brand, and Life Without Curating Perfection

Google product strategist by day, jet-setting creator by night, Joseph Lucido is living the kind of double life most people only daydream about. But behind the glossy travel photos and iconic party stories is a sharper question: how do you build a life that is ambitious, visible, and still actually yours? (instagram.com/joseph.lucido) Joseph opens up about balancing nearly eight years at Google with more than a decade as a content creator, and why he stopped trying to maintain a perfectly curat...
Meet Joseph Lucido | Building a Career, Brand, and Life Without Curating Perfection
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Meet Joseph Lucido | Building a Career, Brand, and Life Without Curating Perfection
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Aug. 24, 2026

Meet Alexander Stefanini | How a therapist built a sanctuary for trans and queer healing

Trans and queer people are being asked to survive a hostile climate while still finding a way to heal, transition, and stay whole. Licensed therapist and Arrive Therapy founder Alexander Stefanini shares what actually helps: sanctuary, community, laughter, and care that meets people where they are (ArriveTherapy.com) This conversation goes far beyond headlines and rhetoric. Alexander opens up about building a practice rooted in safety for trans, non-binary, and LGBTQ+ clients, and why an intent...
Meet Alexander Stefanini | How a therapist built a sanctuary for trans and queer healing
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Meet Alexander Stefanini | How a therapist built a sanctuary for trans and queer healing
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Aug. 19, 2026

Revealing What Asexual Looks Like – From HighFashion Modeling to NYC Pride Grand Marshal with Yasmin Benoit

Most people assume the fashion and modeling worlds are rooted purely in sexuality and male gaze—Yasmin Benoit challenges that with her radical authenticity and activism. As the first openly asexual grand marshal at NYC Pride and a trailblazing figure in alternative fashion, she turns societal expectations upside down, revealing how visibility can be a powerful act of liberation. But what happens when a space built on hypersexualization is navigated by someone who simply doesn’t see sex or desire...
Revealing What Asexual Looks Like – From HighFashion Modeling to NYC Pride Grand Marshal with Yasmin Benoit
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Revealing What Asexual Looks Like – From HighFashion Modeling to NYC Pride Grand Marshal with Yasmin Benoit
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Aug. 17, 2026

The Anatomy of Confidence – Shedding Small-Town Shame for NYC, Jockstraps, & 16-Hour Days with Zane Kazan

Most people think of the adult entertainment industry as a realm where passion and ambition clash with shame and stereotypes. Zane Kazan, a trailblazing actor, content creator, and founder of Helio Menswear, shatters that misconception by unapologetically owning his sexuality while aiming for mainstream greatness. In this candid conversation, he reveals how he's balancing bold business ventures, a sex-positive brand, and the relentless pursuit of his dreams — all without sacrificing authenticity...
The Anatomy of Confidence – Shedding Small-Town Shame for NYC, Jockstraps, & 16-Hour Days with Zane Kazan
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The Anatomy of Confidence – Shedding Small-Town Shame for NYC, Jockstraps, & 16-Hour Days with Zane Kazan
160
Aug. 12, 2026

Disney High Seas Tales From a Quadruple Threat Puppeteer with Conor Devoe

Most theater kids dream of turning their childhood shyness into a dazzling career — and Connor DeVoe did just that, blending singing, dancing, acting, and even puppetry into a vibrant, multifaceted life. But it wasn’t always glamorous; he reveals how early stage fright almost kept him from singing “Tomorrow” at preschool and shares the gritty realities of moving to New York City with an unpaid internship in his pocket. In this episode, Connor pulls back the curtain on the unpredictable journey ...
Disney High Seas Tales From a Quadruple Threat Puppeteer with Conor Devoe
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Disney High Seas Tales From a Quadruple Threat Puppeteer with Conor Devoe
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Aug. 10, 2026

Flipping the Script on Queer Gymnastics while Balancing the Creative Hustle with Andrew Chupp

Uncover the inspiring journey of Andrew Chupp, a true embodiment of multi-talented excellence who’s redefining what it means to be a modern athlete and activist. From elite gymnastics and content creation to advocating for LGBTQ visibility on the global stage, Andrew’s story is a masterclass in balancing passion, purpose, and authenticity. When most of us are just trying to get out of bed, Andrew spends his days coaching youth, shooting real estate, creating viral gymnastic content, and prepari...
Flipping the Script on Queer Gymnastics while Balancing the Creative Hustle with Andrew Chupp
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Flipping the Script on Queer Gymnastics while Balancing the Creative Hustle with Andrew Chupp
158
Aug. 5, 2026

Algorithms vs. Allyship: How a Trans Comedian Won the Internet with Chris McAllister

Most comedians say their first time on stage is terrifying, but Chris McAllister turned that fear into a powerhouse debut that kickstarted their stand-up career—and their journey of unapologetic authenticity. From a nerve-wracking open mic in Sydney to a sold-out show at Australia’s premier comedy festival, Chris proves that humor is the ultimate tool for connection, healing, and challenging societal norms. In this episode, Chris shares how comedy became their safe space to process their journe...
Algorithms vs. Allyship: How a Trans Comedian Won the Internet with Chris McAllister
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Algorithms vs. Allyship: How a Trans Comedian Won the Internet with Chris McAllister
157
Aug. 3, 2026

Spilling First Class Tea & Creating Content at 30,000 ft with @Whoisseanmac

Most companies struggle to showcase the real, unglamorous truth behind their glamorous travel lifestyles — until now. @WhoIsSeanMac, a flight attendant and viral digital storyteller, flips the script on airline life with humor, honesty, and jaw-dropping stories from the cockpit. He reveals the surprising truths about safety training, handling emergency chaos, and what it’s really like to navigate the skies—and social scenes—around the world. You’ll discover: How flight attendants are trained in...
Spilling First Class Tea &  Creating Content at 30,000 ft with @Whoisseanmac
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Spilling First Class Tea & Creating Content at 30,000 ft with @Whoisseanmac
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July 29, 2026

The Visibility Superpower – Empowering Chosen Family From Flesh to Felt with Jen Capra

Most people wouldn't dare turn childhood nostalgia, Muppet magic, and raw Gen X existential crisis into a rallying cry for radical queer joy—Jen Capra does it with effortless wit and unapologetic authenticity. Her career doesn’t just entertain; it builds community. From wrangling iconic Muppets on Sesame Street to capturing viral chaos on TikTok, Jen proves that humor and heart are powerful weapons in shaping a more inclusive world. In this episode, you'll discover how a self-described 'weird, ...
The Visibility Superpower – Empowering Chosen Family From Flesh to Felt with Jen Capra
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The Visibility Superpower – Empowering Chosen Family From Flesh to Felt with Jen Capra
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July 27, 2026

An Olympian’s Guide to the Glide: Finding Identity Past the Perfect Score With Randy Gardner

Most champions hide a story that’s even more inspiring than their medals — a story of courage, vulnerability, and unwavering authenticity. Randy Gardner, five-time U.S. national and world champion figure skater and trailblazer in LGBTQ+ history, reveals the journey behind his glittering career, his private battles, and the powerful moment that changed everything: discovering he was adopted later in life. In this heartfelt conversation, Randy shares how he navigated decades of fame while conceal...
An Olympian’s Guide to the Glide: Finding Identity Past the Perfect Score With Randy Gardner
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An Olympian’s Guide to the Glide: Finding Identity Past the Perfect Score With Randy Gardner
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July 22, 2026

The Art of Belonging & How Democracy Demands the Queer Existence with Gui Mohallem

Most artists wouldn't dare turn their activism into a movement for democracy—Ghee Mohlim does it with stunning visuals and unapologetic courage. His work doesn’t just document; it demands action. From capturing the raw realities of queer kinship to fighting for representation in Brazil's political landscape, Ghee proves that art is a powerful weapon in shaping society’s future. In this episode, you'll discover how Ghee turned personal displacement into a global platform for change. He shares hi...
The Art of Belonging & How Democracy Demands the Queer Existence with Gui Mohallem
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The Art of Belonging & How Democracy Demands the Queer Existence with Gui Mohallem
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July 20, 2026

Directing the Heartbeat in Every Frame – From Ghosting to A-List Movie Sets with Matt Sparks

Most people don’t realize that behind viral sketches and bold creativity, there’s a filmmaker who’s been crafting stories since childhood—and is now using those skills to parody dating, explore identity, and connect through humor. Meet Matt Sparks, the visionary behind some of the most hilarious queer content online, from viral ghosting parodies to a hilarious rescue shelter for future boyfriends. In this episode, Matt opens up about how he turned childhood passion into a career, working alongsi...
Directing the Heartbeat in Every Frame – From Ghosting to A-List Movie Sets with Matt Sparks
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Directing the Heartbeat in Every Frame – From Ghosting to A-List Movie Sets with Matt Sparks
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July 15, 2026

Rebuilding Life on Your Own Terms: Stress, How to Manage it, and How to Do it Authentically with Dr Chris Biddix, PHD

Most people think “blowing up your life” means losing everything — but for Dr. Chris Biddix, it was the radical transformation that led him to his true self. From the hyper-conservative halls of Liberty University to becoming a Gen Z wellness expert, a proud gay dad, and founder of My Best Stress, his journey defies expectations and rewrites what it truly means to live authentically. If you’re stuck feeling like you’re in a box you don’t fit, this episode is your blueprint to break free—to find ...
Rebuilding Life on Your Own Terms: Stress, How to Manage it, and How to Do it Authentically with Dr Chris Biddix, PHD
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Rebuilding Life on Your Own Terms: Stress, How to Manage it, and How to Do it Authentically with Dr Chris Biddix, PHD
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July 13, 2026

The Modern Guide to Elevated Living and Bringing the Chaos to Classic Luxury with AJ Hernandez

Most people see AJ Hernandez as Boston’s stylish lifestyle guru—an impeccably curated content creator with a razor-sharp, unapologetically queer sense of humor. But what if beneath that polished surface, he’s also a deeply resonant voice redefining representation and joy for LGBTQ+ communities? In this episode, AJ openly shares how he’s transforming Boston’s conservative reputation into a vibrant, inclusive hub, simply by showing up with his authentic, joyous self. AJ’s journey from California’...
The Modern Guide to Elevated Living and Bringing the Chaos to Classic Luxury with AJ Hernandez
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The Modern Guide to Elevated Living and Bringing the Chaos to Classic Luxury with AJ Hernandez
150
July 8, 2026

From AIDS to Integrative Oncology – Healing Beyond Disease with Dr Donald Abrams

Join Dr. Donald Abrams, a pioneer in integrative oncology, as he shares his journey from the AIDS crisis front lines to championing holistic healing. Discover how he blends science with soulful care, redefining health through cannabis research and integrative medicine. Explore tangible habits for mental well-being and the power of community and nature in resilience. This episode is a must-listen for those seeking deeper connections and evidence-based healing. Tune in for wisdom and courage that ...
From AIDS to Integrative Oncology – Healing Beyond Disease with Dr Donald Abrams
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From AIDS to Integrative Oncology – Healing Beyond Disease with Dr Donald Abrams
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July 6, 2026

From South to Stage: The Journey of Satire and Storytelling with Caleb Zeringue

Most comedians turn news cycles into punchlines — Caleb Zeringue takes it further, transforming chaos into award-winning theater that shouts queer stories from the rooftops. From viral musicals to hilarious history lessons about America’s most fabulous gay generals, Caleb's work challenges the norms and reclaims the past with wit, sass, and unapologetic honesty In this episode, Caleb dives into his wild journey from Leesville, Louisiana, to the bright lights of New York and San Francisco, revea...
From South to Stage: The Journey of Satire and Storytelling with Caleb Zeringue
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From South to Stage: The Journey of Satire and Storytelling with Caleb Zeringue
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July 1, 2026

Guerrilla Filmmaking, Writing Your Own Roles, and a Little Jumpity Doo with Alex Ringler

Most creators wait for the industry to give them a stage — but Alex Ringler built his own. From Broadway hits to provocative web series, this multi-hyphenate actor, dancer, choreographer, and writer reveals how he’s forging his own path in a world that often limits LGBTQ+ voices. If you're tired of waiting for opportunities to find you, this episode will inspire you to create them yourself. Alex shares the raw, behind-the-scenes stories behind his high-energy drag performances in Provincetown’s...
Guerrilla Filmmaking, Writing Your Own Roles, and a Little Jumpity Doo with Alex Ringler
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Guerrilla Filmmaking, Writing Your Own Roles, and a Little Jumpity Doo with Alex Ringler
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June 29, 2026

Heart and Spade in the Pocket – Building an Independent PR for Queer Voices Everyone Knows and Loves with Matt Gross

Most PR firms spin stories, but Matt Gross built Heart Spade PR from pure heart and grassroots hustle—centered on authentic queer voices in a crowded, commercialized landscape. Discover how he turned a passion for visibility and integrity into a thriving, values-driven agency that defies industry norms. In this episode, Matt shares his remarkable journey from Brooklyn music blogger to a powerhouse in LGBTQ advocacy and entertainment PR. You'll learn how he navigates a busy career without losing...
Heart and Spade in the Pocket – Building an Independent PR for Queer Voices Everyone Knows and Loves with Matt Gross
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Heart and Spade in the Pocket – Building an Independent PR for Queer Voices Everyone Knows and Loves with Matt Gross
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June 24, 2026

Eating Out, Rick & Steve, and Queer Joy – 25 Years of Radical Queer Comedy with Q. Allan Brocka

Allan Broca is a trailblazer who’s reshaped queer storytelling with humor, heart, and unapologetic authenticity. From the groundbreaking Eating Out series to innovative animated projects, he proves that LGBTQ narratives can be bold, messy, and genuinely joyful—without compromise. In this episode, Allan shares the real stories behind his cult classics, the challenges of maintaining creative integrity in a commercial industry, and why representation matters more than ever. Discover how a young bo...
Eating Out, Rick & Steve, and Queer Joy – 25 Years of Radical Queer Comedy with Q. Allan Brocka
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Eating Out, Rick & Steve, and Queer Joy – 25 Years of Radical Queer Comedy with Q. Allan Brocka
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June 22, 2026

A Father’s Day Special The Blueprint of Us Featuring Dad Tom

Most families have stories, but few are filled with the grit, love, and laughter of Bryan and John’s dad—an immigrant, public servant, and master fixer whose journey from Cuba to building communities in South Florida is nothing short of inspiring. In this heartfelt and humorous episode, Bryan and John sit down with their legendary father, Tom Ruiz, to peel back the layers of a life defined by determination, culture, and unconditional love. Tom’s story is a blueprint for resilience—leaving Cuba ...
A Father’s Day Special The Blueprint of Us Featuring Dad Tom
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A Father’s Day Special The Blueprint of Us Featuring Dad Tom
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June 17, 2026

Keeping the Pulse Alive: How Reclaiming Our Joy Changes the System with Brandon Wolf

Most companies shy away from celebrating the full spectrum of LGBTQ+ joy—but advocate Brandon Wolf shows us why prioritizing laughter, pride, and resilience is the boldest act of protest. In this heartfelt and inspiring episode, Brandon, a survivor of the Pulse Nightclub tragedy, shares his journey from rural Oregon to becoming a fierce national advocate. He opens up about growing up in a conservative town where identity felt out of reach, and how moving to Orlando became a pivotal turning poin...
Keeping the Pulse Alive: How Reclaiming Our Joy Changes the System with Brandon Wolf
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Keeping the Pulse Alive: How Reclaiming Our Joy Changes the System with Brandon Wolf
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June 15, 2026

Loosening the Grip on Masculinity: How Pop Culture Shifted from Toxic Tones to Playful Tropes with Queerty Johnny Lopez

Most of us are stuck in a cycle of app swiping, instant gratification, and superficial small talk. But what if we told you that the secret to a deeper, more authentic gay life—and even better dates—lies in resurrecting the art of meeting in person? Johnny Lopez, a fearless cultural critic and queer commentator, challenges the obsession with digital dopamine rushes and reveals how returning to real-world interactions can transform your happiness and relationships. In this lively episode, Johnny ...
Loosening the Grip on Masculinity: How Pop Culture Shifted from Toxic Tones to Playful Tropes with Queerty Johnny Lopez
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Loosening the Grip on Masculinity: How Pop Culture Shifted from Toxic Tones to Playful Tropes with Queerty Johnny Lopez
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June 10, 2026

From Huge Aspiration and High Notes to Ever Bigger Stages and Building a Foundation to Fabulousness with Daniel Joseph Baker

Most of us dream of blending raw talent with unapologetic authenticity—and Daniel Joseph Baker proves it’s possible to do both at once. Whether he’s captivating millions online, giving life on America’s Got Talent, or singing for the LGBTQ community at the UN, Daniel is here to show how embracing your true self can unlock extraordinary opportunities. But it’s not just about the stage—he’s navigated the struggles of childhood, industry pitfalls, and self-validation to become a powerhouse artist a...
From Huge Aspiration and High Notes to Ever Bigger Stages and Building a Foundation to Fabulousness with Daniel Joseph Baker
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From Huge Aspiration and High Notes to Ever Bigger Stages and Building a Foundation to Fabulousness with Daniel Joseph Baker
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June 8, 2026

A ‘Chosen Family’ Reunion – Ben from “It’s Ben a Week” Poscast is Back!

Most creators get into podcasting for connection—fewer realize how deeply it reveals your true self. Ben Macdonald, a master of transformation from TV drama to behind-the-scenes director and podcast host, shares how making his voice heard has become his most authentic act yet. If you've ever felt stuck between your dreams and reality, Ben's story will inspire you to lean into your true voice and find success on your own terms. In this candid conversation, Ben reveals how his childhood love for ...
A ‘Chosen Family’ Reunion – Ben from “It’s Ben a Week” Poscast is Back!
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A ‘Chosen Family’ Reunion – Ben from “It’s Ben a Week” Poscast is Back!