Episodes

In this episode, John and Brian dive into the multifaceted concept of greed. They explore various forms of greed, from virtual holdups and political ambitions to humorous instances like battling for toys during the holiday rush and sampling food at Costco. The discussion extends to personal experiences and reflections on whether greed can sometimes be reframed as ambition or self-care. Join the conversation as they analyze how greed influences behaviors in different contexts and conclude with ti...

Join Bryan and Jon as they dive hilariously into their pantries, labeling common food items as gay or straight. From chips and ramen to condiments and candy, they humorously explore the 'personalities' of pantry staples. Watch as they debate and joke about foods, assigning them quirky sexual orientations and speculating on their 'nightlife' characteristics. It's a fun, light-hearted look at everyday pantry items with a comedic twist! YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?...

In this episode, Bryan & Jon discuss various aspects of digital etiquette including the use of Venmo payments, handling group dinners, the rise of voice notes and voicemails, and the impact of digital interactions on personal relationships. They delve into the nuances of digital communications, such as texting manners, GIF usage, unfriending vs. muting on social media, and the etiquette of using phones in social settings. Tune in for a lively conversation on how modern technology influences our ...

In this episode, we dive into the exciting milestone of Kenzie losing her first tooth. The story unfolds with a detailed recount of Kenzie's tooth-wiggling antics leading to the triumphant moment of her pulling out her own tooth. We share humorous takes on the ever-evolving concept of the Tooth Fairy, from her traditional image to a potential modern glow-up into a drag queen or a feminist icon. The conversation also spans to whimsical musings on what the Tooth Fairy does with all the teeth, her ...

In this episode, we discuss the recent legislation in Florida targeting rainbow crosswalks under the guise of uniform traffic control measures and alleged safety concerns. The hosts dive deep into the political and social implications, particularly focusing on how this move disproportionately impacts the LGBTQ+ community. Covering examples from Florida cities like Orlando, Key West, and Miami, the conversation highlights the erasure of symbols significant to the LGBTQ+ community and memorials su...

Join Bryan and Jon as they dive into a hilarious and random conversation following a long day at jury duty. They discuss the latest seasonal treats from Trader Joe's, the drudgery of courtrooms, and come up with hysterical drag queen names inspired by personal traumas. Laugh along as they brainstorm names like Trigger Mortis, Betty No Friends, and Holly Hindsight, wrapping up with a humorous list that includes the outrageous Crystal Methy and Roe Funeral. YouTube Channel:⁠ https://www.youtube.c...

In this lively episode, we welcome Ben from the 'It's Been a Week' podcast in our first cross-over to share his adventurous journey from Hollywood to Texas. Join us as we dive into Ben's transitions from glitzy West Hollywood to the Texas countryside, his experiences dealing with COVID-19, and adapting to a life far removed from LA's fast-paced lifestyle. Ben opens up about his huge array of farm animals, his take on monogamy, and his unique approach to living a balanced life with eco-friendly d...

In this engaging episode, Bryan and Jon delve into the concept of midlife crises and how they are dealing with their own transitions in their 40s. They discuss a range of topics from personal anecdotes about family, gardening, and birdwatching, to more profound reflections on maturing and personal growth. The conversation takes a humorous and insightful look at the stereotypical midlife crisis and reframes it as a period of self-discovery and reinvention. Tune in for a mix of laughter, wisdom, a...

Join hosts Jon and Bryan for a powerful conversation with original American Idol heartthrob, Jim Verraros. Jim gets candid about his groundbreaking journey, from being a top finalist on the show's first season to releasing his latest six-track EP, "Explicit." You'll hear the real story behind his experience as an openly gay artist in the early 2000s, his successful transition into acting with the "Eating Out" film series, and his inspiring return to music after a career hiatus. Jim also opens ...

In this episode, Bryan and Jon dive into various aspects of their lives in 2025, starting with updates on personal matters like Jon’s thriving garden and Bryan’s French Bulldog Piper's hopeful medical prognosis. They then explore the broader topic of what it's like to be gay in 2025, discussing societal progress and setbacks, personal fears, and the unique experiences they face. The conversation also touches on topics like stigmas, acceptance, and the challenges posed by extreme political views....

In this lively and humorous discussion, Jon and Bryan dive into the concept of 'gay math,' exploring how it affects various aspects of their lives. From getting ready and arriving fashionably late to brunch, to the unique ways they measure time and social interactions, the hosts share personal anecdotes and funny insights. They also touch on weight perceptions, gym routines, and the often complicated task of splitting bills. This episode is a fun and relatable look at the cultural quirks within ...

Join hosts Jon and Bryan as they welcome their close friend David to discuss their shared history, from meeting in a gay softball league to navigating life as gay dads. David shares insights into his life in Portland, Oregon with his husband Rafael and their 4-year-old son Simon. The conversation highlights the unique experiences of gay parenthood, including the unexpected challenges and joys. David also introduces his new venture, Gaddies (HeyGaddies.com), aimed at creating visibility and commu...

Join Bryan and Jon as they dive into a hilarious and candid discussion about a wide range of names, debating whether they sound gay or straight. From personal anecdotes about their pets to an imaginative game that assigns sexual orientations and personality traits to names like Billy, William, Edward, Eddie, Jimmy, and more, this episode is packed with fun and humor. As they navigate through their witty banter, they also touch on meaningful moments about their pets' health and life challenges. A...

Join Bryan and Jon as they discuss their self-care routines, including gym visits and acupuncture experiences. They delve into the intricacies of gaydar, sharing personal anecdotes from growing up to the present day in 2025. The conversation covers cultural differences in Europe, the challenges of modern dating, and a humorous envisioning of how gay animals might interact. The duo wraps up with thoughts on how their perception of gaydar has evolved over time and playful banter about potential fu...

In this episode, Bryan and Jon discuss their experiences and reflections as they navigate their forties. They dive into topics such as the differences between being 40 and being in their forties, the challenges and victories in maintaining physical health, and the importance of mental and spiritual well-being. The conversation also covers personal anecdotes about aging, the benefits of acupuncture, and the value of living in the moment. Join them for a candid and insightful discussion about embr...

In this episode, we dive into a heartfelt discussion between two family members about the balance between being a fun uncle and a strict parent. The conversation covers topics like organizing kids' toys, the challenges of parenting versus visiting, and the importance of building lasting relationships with children. They reflect on their own upbringing and the dynamic between their dads, and how they're carrying that legacy forward. With humor and heartfelt moments, this episode highlights the jo...

In this episode, Jon and Bryan delve into the often frustrating and sometimes hilarious aspects of air travel. They share personal experiences, from the quirks of airport culture to the chaos of boarding and deplaning. The conversation touches on the inefficiencies of boarding zones, the scramble to find the right seat, and the unspoken social dynamics of flying. They also highlight the rare moments of kindness amidst the madness. Tune in for tips, humor, and relatable travel stories that might ...

Join Jon and Bryan in this laugh-out-loud episode where they play a revealing game of 'Never Have I Ever.' From slipping in the shower while singing to Britney Spears, to confessing awkward moments and childhood crushes, this conversation covers it all. They dig deep into their most embarrassing experiences, including using someone else's toothbrush, lying about dating histories, and much more. Don't miss out on this candid and fun-filled episode! YouTube Channel:⁠ https://www.youtube.com/@OutL...

Join Jon and Bryan in this hilariously insightful episode as they dive into the 'Is This Gay?' game, focusing on US vacation destinations. From Las Vegas to San Francisco, and Santa Fe to Washington DC, they debate whether these cities are 'Gaycation', 'Staycation', or 'Naca'. Learn intriguing fun facts, laugh at witty banter, and discover the LGBTQ+ vibes of these cities. A must-watch for anyone curious about how gay your favorite US city might be! YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@Out...

Join Jon and Bryan as they take a trip down memory lane discussing the early days of the internet, AOL chat rooms, and the evolution of online communication. They reminisce about dial-up internet, away messages, and the significance of screen names. They also share personal stories about formative experiences in AOL chat rooms, including a possible interaction with Lance Bass and the challenges of navigating online spaces as teenagers. Reflecting on how much the internet has changed, they explor...

Join us as we recount our recent trip to New York, including an inspiring gala hosted by OutRight International, an organization fighting for LGBTQ+ rights in developing countries. We discuss the historic Stonewall Inn uprising, the origins of Pride, and the ongoing struggles for LGBTQ+ rights. Reflecting on our Pride season and current political climate, this video emphasizes the importance of love, advocacy, and community action. Happy Pride! YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudA...

In this episode of Out Loud and Laughing, Jon and Bryan dive into a spirited discussion about their favorite pop divas, including Britney Spears, Pink, Madonna, and Beyonce. Expect playful banter, sizzling hot takes, and even a bizarre NyQuil dream story involving alligators. Tune in to hear why Britney is a feeling, Pink's unique crossover appeal, and why Madonna and Beyonce stir up some controversy. As always, laughter and candid moments are guaranteed. YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.co...

In this episode, Bryan and Jon reflect on their childhood selves in 1996, a pivotal year symbolizing both simplicity and struggle. They read heartfelt letters addressed to their 12-year-old selves, offering wisdom, comfort, and hope from their future perspectives. Both letters highlight their unique journeys through LGBTQ+ identity, cultural challenges, personal growth, and the importance of love and friendship. The conversation takes a thoughtful turn as they discuss the significance of Pride M...

Wrapping up Season 1, join Bryan and Jon, two gay cousins, as they host a hilarious new game show segment called 'The One Word Gay Icon Guessing Game.' Watch as they try to identify legendary gay icons with only a single word as a clue, leading to unexpected answers and plenty of laughs. Celebrate Pride Month with big talks, bigger laughs, and a healthy dose of LGBTQ+ history and culture. Don't miss out on this fun and enlightening final episode of Season 1! YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube...