Episodes

Beyond the usual tales of parental sacrifice, this episode explores the extraordinary resilience of Bryan’s mother, Bea. A Cuban-born educator who fled her homeland in the 70s, Bea shares how she raised four children through economic hardship with unwavering faith and grace. Her journey is a masterclass in perseverance, proving that radical acceptance and doing "one thing at a time" can build a legacy of strength. You’ll learn how Bea balanced motherhood with self-growth, working through colleg...

While most fled record-breaking snow, Riley Riffle trekked 2,650 miles through it on the Pacific Crest Trail. Facing historic snowpack, body dysmorphia, and grief, he discovered that true resilience stems from vulnerability. This episode explores Riley’s journey of healing, revealing how the trail’s raw beauty helps dismantle societal labels and invites us to embrace our most authentic selves. We discuss shedding the "performance" of being okay to find genuine courage. Riley challenges the my...

Join us as we explore the art of travel hacking, LGBTQ+ travel experiences, and lifestyle design with digital nomad Brian from BriGuides. Discover how to travel smarter, save money, and embrace a life of adventure and authenticity. Travel hacking and credit card points strategies Navigating LGBTQ+ travel safety and community Lifestyle design for digital nomads and travelers BryGuide, BryGuides, Travel hacking, digital nomad, LGBTQ+ travel, lifestyle design, credit card points, international ...

Join us as we chat with Dr. Tubss, a digital content creator and physical therapist, about his journey from South Florida to viral fame. Discover how authenticity, humor, and strategic platform use have propelled his online presence, while also exploring the balance between personal branding and mental health. Dr. Tubss’ background and journey to online fame The role of authenticity and humor in social media growth Balancing educational content with innuendo and thirst traps Platform strateg...

Join us for an inspiring conversation with Sasha Korbut, a multifaceted filmmaker, writer, and advocate, as he shares his journey of authenticity, the power of storytelling, and insights into the immigrant and queer experience. Discover how embracing vulnerability and truth can lead to deeper connections and personal growth. Sasha Korbut’s journey as a queer immigrant from Russia The role of storytelling and film in personal and social healing The importance of authenticity and vulnerability ...

In this insightful conversation, Doug Marshall explores the deep connection between mental health, trauma, and self-awareness within the gay community. He shares practical tools for nervous system regulation, discusses the impact of internalized homophobia, and emphasizes the importance of inner work for authentic living. The body keeps the score and understanding your body's signals is crucial for healing. Trauma and unhealed wounds often manifest as self-sabotage and disconnection. Simple s...

In this engaging interview, personal finance expert Nick Wollney shares his journey from musical roots to financial empowerment, emphasizing resilience, behavioral finance, and the importance of aligning money habits with queer joy. Discover practical tips, mental models, and inspiring stories to transform your relationship with money. YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Key Topics: Resilience and agility in personal finance Behavioral finance and o...

Join us as we explore the creative journey of Matt Torrado, the visionary behind immersive theater experiences like Monster Party. Discover how his childhood influences, love for horror, and commitment to authentic storytelling shape his groundbreaking work in queer and immersive theater. YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Time Stamps: 00:00 Introduction and Guest Credibility 01:03 Early Themed Warehouse Parties and Transition to Theater 02:01 Sta...

In this episode, we sit down with Paolo Presta, a two-time Webby-winning entertainer, talk show host, and inspiring storyteller. Paolo shares his incredible journey from a Chicago grocery store to Hollywood fame and highlights the power of persistence, authenticity, and following your dreams. This conversation offers valuable lessons for anyone chasing their big break, regardless of where they start. YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Time Stamps: 0...

In this engaging conversation, Jared Gravatt, a multifaceted individual, shares his journey as a marketing director, LGBTQ influencer, and entrepreneur. He discusses the challenges of navigating dual identities, the entrepreneurial itch that led him to co-found a coffee business, and his transformative experience in Turkey that sparked a viral conversation about authenticity and male vanity. Jared emphasizes the importance of creating safe spaces in rural communities for LGBTQ individuals and re...

In this episode, Matt Gordon shares his journey as a comedian and actor, discussing his unapologetic approach to gay culture and intimacy. He reflects on the absurdities of life, the challenges of being an influencer, and his experiences living in Japan. Matt emphasizes the importance of authenticity in performance and the richness of experiences over material wealth. The conversation also touches on the impact of social media on careers and the dynamics of dating in the gay community. YouTube ...

In this engaging conversation, Glass Battles shares his journey as a multi-hyphenate artist, discussing his creative process, musical influences, and the importance of collaboration within the LGBTQ+ community. He emphasizes the need for authenticity in the music industry and offers valuable advice for aspiring artists. The discussion also touches on his future aspirations and the fun side of his personality through a light-hearted game of 'This or That.' YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.co...

In this engaging conversation, Jack Tracy, the creator and star of 'Danny Will Die Alone,' discusses the realities of modern dating, the evolution of relationships, and the importance of authenticity in storytelling. He shares insights on navigating the complexities of dating apps, open relationships, and the impact of societal expectations on personal connections. Jack also reflects on his journey from a legal career to becoming a multifaceted artist, emphasizing the DIY spirit that drives his ...

In this engaging episode, Bryan Ruiz and Jon sit down with Logan Lynn, a prominent figure in the LGBTQIA+ music scene and the founder of Music in Demand, a talent agency dedicated to uplifting queer and trans artists. Logan shares his journey from being an openly queer musician to becoming a powerful advocate for the community, emphasizing the importance of visibility and representation in the music industry. He discusses how Music in Demand aims to disrupt traditional gatekeeping practices, mak...

In this engaging episode, Jon and Bryan welcome Aaron Goldenberg, a talented actor and creator known for his comedic content that resonates with LGBTQ+ culture. They explore Aaron's journey in comedy, the inspirations behind his work, and how his upbringing has shaped his humor. The conversation delves into the themes of reclaiming trauma through laughter, using one's platform for charitable causes, and the liberating experience of vulnerability. The episode concludes with a fun game of 'This or...

In this engaging conversation, Bryan and Jon welcome Cory Allen, a former Secret Service agent turned author and advocate, to discuss the complexities of queer fatherhood and building a legacy. Cory shares his unique journey from law enforcement to parenting, emphasizing the emotional challenges and joys of fatherhood, particularly through the lens of his new children's book. The discussion touches on the importance of authenticity, empathy, and the need for representation in literature for LGBT...

In this engaging conversation, Sapphira Cristál shares her journey from a talented performer to a stand-up comedian, discussing the challenges and triumphs she faced along the way. She reflects on her experiences in the drag community, the influence of her upbringing, and the importance of resilience in the face of rejection. Sapphira also delves into her creative process, the significance of personal branding, and the joy of connecting with her audience through humor. The discussion culminates ...

In this engaging conversation, Miss Bouvèé (@missbouvee) shares her journey as a drag performer and activist, discussing the transformative power of drag, the importance of community support, and her latest art installation, 'Visibility Is the Protest.' She emphasizes the need for joy and connection through music and art while navigating the challenges of activism in today's political climate. YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Time Stamps: 00:00 I...

In this episode, Bryan and Jon welcome Graham Gremore, the editor-in-chief of Queerty, to discuss the evolving landscape of LGBTQIA media, the balance between celebrating queer joy and addressing community challenges, and the importance of inclusivity in storytelling. Graham shares insights on navigating local leadership in Minneapolis, the unique consumption of media within the queer community, and the exciting upcoming events like the Queerties. The conversation also touches on Graham's person...

In this engaging conversation, Jonathan Lovitz shares his journey from a theater background to becoming a prominent advocate for LGBTQ rights. He discusses the importance of visibility, community engagement, and the role of local elections in shaping a better future. Lovitz reflects on his experiences in the Biden administration and emphasizes the need for hope and action in the face of adversity. He encourages listeners to find their passion and contribute to the fight for equality and justice....

In this episode, Bryan and Jon engage with Daniel Blevins, the founder of Standin' Pride, discussing the importance of chosen family, the journey of creating a supportive community for LGBTQ+ individuals, and the personal experiences that shaped Daniel's mission. They explore the evolution of Standin' Pride from a viral TikTok video to a nonprofit organization, the significance of emotional support in various life events, and the ongoing need for community involvement and resources. YouTube Cha...

In this engaging conversation, Bryan Ruiz and Eric Feltes explore the transformative journey of self-acceptance and authenticity, particularly within the LGBTQ+ community. Eric shares his personal experiences and the foundation of his life coaching practice, emphasizing the importance of community, self-love, and the process of unmasking one's true self. The discussion delves into overcoming the inner critic through compassionate curiosity, the significance of acknowledging emotions, and the val...

In this engaging conversation, Rachel Shatto, editor-in-chief of Pride.com, discusses the balance of reporting on the hardships faced by the LGBTQIA community while celebrating their joys. She emphasizes the importance of authentic storytelling, the role of curiosity in her work, and the challenges of combating misinformation in media. Rachel also shares insights into her daily routine, the significance of taking breaks for mental health, and her collaborative approach to leadership. The episode...

In this engaging conversation, David Morgenstern, the creative force behind Gaddies, shares insights into his journey as a queer dad and entrepreneur. He discusses the evolution of his brand, the importance of community engagement, and the challenges of balancing personal identity with business. David reflects on the significance of representation and celebration within the LGBTQ+ community, and how his experiences as a parent have shaped his approach to business. The conversation also touches o...