Out Loud & Laughing

Episodes

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Oct. 24, 2025

Unpacking Childhood Lies & Myths

In this hilarious episode, hosts Jon and Bryan reminisce about all the funny and bizarre lies their parents told them as kids. From being warned that making a face would make it permanently stuck like that to the absurdity of believing in pee dye in pools, they cover it all. They also dive into traditional parental lies about pets, eating habits, and more. Listen as they explore these hilarious and sometimes traumatizing moments, all while sharing their own personal anecdotes. YouTube Channel: ...
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Oct. 20, 2025

(He’s Back!) Controversial Coffee Chats with It’s Ben A Week

In this episode, Jon and Bryan welcome Ben back to dive deep into hilarious and edgy conversations about their personal lives. From wearing shorts in Texas, pumpkin spice lattes, and Starbucks barista behavior to recounting a recent jail experience for speeding, nothing is off-limits. The group also discusses the passionate sides of tech preferences (Android vs. iPhone), Disney adults vs. Universal fans, and the extreme loyalty of Taylor Swift fans. No topic is too taboo as they explore everythi...
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Oct. 16, 2025

Is It Gay? Public Transit!

Join hosts Jon and Bryan in this hilarious and insightful episode of 'Out Loud and Laughing' as they dive into the world of transportation to determine what modes of travel might be gay, straight, bi, or non-binary. From subways and monorails to ferries and airplanes, no form of public transit is left out of their cheeky and candid analysis. They also discuss various facets of air travel, iconic vehicles like San Francisco's cable cars, and the nuances of Uber services. Sip on a drink, sit back,...
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Oct. 13, 2025

A Unique Perspective with Kaelan Strouse

Join Jon and Bryan as they introduce Kaelan Strouse, a mindfulness and sex positivity advocate, to the chat. In this insightful conversation, Kaelan discusses his personal journey of overcoming societal and internalized shame regarding sexuality, identity, and spirituality. He shares how mindfulness, a dedicated yogic practice, and exploring various aspects of sexuality helped him find self-love and joy. Kaelan also addresses common misconceptions about sex positivity, the balance of being an in...
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Oct. 8, 2025

Jon & Bryan's Algorithms: Does It Say "Top" or "Bottom"?

In this hilarious and introspective episode, Jon and Bryan explore the world of TikTok algorithms and their implications on their sexual identities. They dive into a series of quizzes to determine whether they're tops, bottoms, or somewhere in between. The results lead to a deeper discussion about the fluidity of sexual roles, the impact of societal labels, and the importance of self-exploration and communication in relationships. Join them for an entertaining journey through self-discovery, fil...
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Oct. 6, 2025

One Word Edition | Envy

In this episode, we dive into the theme of envy, examining its different facets and how it manifests in various aspects of our lives. From light-hearted scenarios like body envy and travel envy to more complex discussions about the gay community and societal norms, we dissect how envy can drive desire and self-improvement. We also explore the thin line between envy and jealousy, and how social media influences these feelings. Join us for a candid and humorous look at the green-eyed monster and i...
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Oct. 1, 2025

An Intimate Conversation with David Burtka

In this inspiring episode, we sit down with David Burtka to discuss his multifaceted life, from being a father through surrogacy with his husband Neil Patrick Harris, to his journey with sobriety. David shares heartfelt insights about parenthood, the evolving dynamics as his children grow older, and the importance of setting examples. He delves into his personal battles and triumphs with sobriety, the lessons learned from the 12-step program, and how these experiences have shaped his life and re...
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Sept. 29, 2025

First Gay Experiences

Join Jon and Bryan as they dive into a fun and heartfelt discussion about their first gay experiences, celebrity crushes, college memories, and the reality of aging as gay men. From nostalgic moments to candid confessions, this episode offers humor, insight, and plenty of laughs. Don’t miss out on their personal stories and reflections, all while sporting some fabulous merch from outloudandlaughing.com. Tune in for an episode full of laughter, nostalgia, and genuine connection. YouTube Channel:...
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Sept. 24, 2025

Which Fictional Character is "Secretly" Queer?

In this lively discussion, hosts delve into their favorite fictional characters from popular culture and theorize about their potential secret queer identities. From iconic figures like Captain Hook, Miss Piggy, and Elsa, to Aladdin and He-Man, they cover a wide range of beloved personalities. With a mix of humor and insightful commentary, they challenge traditional perceptions and assign new, inclusive interpretations to these characters. The conversation also touches on personal anecdotes and ...
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Sept. 22, 2025

From Broadway to Pride Fit - Interview with Sam Leicht

Join us in this engaging conversation with Sam Leicht, a former Broadway actor turned fitness guru, as he shares his remarkable journey from the stage to building an inclusive online fitness community. Learn about Sam's transition from acting to fitness training during the pandemic, the creation of Pride Fit (pridefit.com), and his dedication to empowering the queer community through accessible fitness solutions. Get insights into overcoming personal obstacles, fostering sustainable health habit...
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Sept. 17, 2025

Do You Remember!? Fashion Dilemmas

In this lively conversation, Jon and Bryan dive into the world of back-to-school shopping as Bryan prepares for his daughter Kenzie's first day of kindergarten. They discuss the importance of presenting oneself, the pressures of standing out (especially with two gay dads), and the impact of fashion trends over the years. From Kenzie's K-pop graphic tee obsession to nostalgic 90s and 2000s fashion trends, the duo shares their fashion hits and misses. They also highlight the intersection of appare...
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Sept. 15, 2025

Dream LGBTQ+ Celebrity Dinner Party Guests

In this entertaining episode, Bryan and Jon kick things off with a humorous banter about the keto meatloaf dinner and pivot to recollections of 'Trading Spaces.' The conversation transitions into an engaging chat about ideal dinner party guests, including Joan Rivers, Cher, Laverne Cox, Elliot Page, George Takei, and Dolly Parton. The duo imagines various settings for these get-togethers, balancing humor with thoughtful reflections on the contributions and challenges faced by these iconic figure...
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Sept. 11, 2025

A Chat with Jennifer McClain: From Broadway Dreams to Big Easy Queens

Join hosts Bryan and Jon as they welcome the incredibly talented Jennifer McClain to the show. Jennifer, a renowned singer and actress, shares her journey from a young dreamer with Broadway aspirations to performing in South Florida's vibrant LGBTQ+ community. She talks about her experiences performing cabaret, her latest movie 'Big Easy Queens' on Hulu, and her roles in various productions. Jennifer also dives into her unique character development process for the movie and shares some of her fa...
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Sept. 8, 2025

One Word Edition | Greed.

In this episode, John and Brian dive into the multifaceted concept of greed. They explore various forms of greed, from virtual holdups and political ambitions to humorous instances like battling for toys during the holiday rush and sampling food at Costco. The discussion extends to personal experiences and reflections on whether greed can sometimes be reframed as ambition or self-care. Join the conversation as they analyze how greed influences behaviors in different contexts and conclude with ti...
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Sept. 3, 2025

Is This Gay? | Pantry Item Edition

Join Bryan and Jon as they dive hilariously into their pantries, labeling common food items as gay or straight. From chips and ramen to condiments and candy, they humorously explore the 'personalities' of pantry staples. Watch as they debate and joke about foods, assigning them quirky sexual orientations and speculating on their 'nightlife' characteristics. It's a fun, light-hearted look at everyday pantry items with a comedic twist! YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?...
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Sept. 1, 2025

Venmo & Digital Etiquette

In this episode, Bryan & Jon discuss various aspects of digital etiquette including the use of Venmo payments, handling group dinners, the rise of voice notes and voicemails, and the impact of digital interactions on personal relationships. They delve into the nuances of digital communications, such as texting manners, GIF usage, unfriending vs. muting on social media, and the etiquette of using phones in social settings. Tune in for a lively conversation on how modern technology influences our ...
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Aug. 27, 2025

Tooth Fairy Glow-Up!

In this episode, we dive into the exciting milestone of Kenzie losing her first tooth. The story unfolds with a detailed recount of Kenzie's tooth-wiggling antics leading to the triumphant moment of her pulling out her own tooth. We share humorous takes on the ever-evolving concept of the Tooth Fairy, from her traditional image to a potential modern glow-up into a drag queen or a feminist icon. The conversation also spans to whimsical musings on what the Tooth Fairy does with all the teeth, her ...
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Aug. 27, 2025

Erasing Rainbows From The Streets

In this episode, we discuss the recent legislation in Florida targeting rainbow crosswalks under the guise of uniform traffic control measures and alleged safety concerns. The hosts dive deep into the political and social implications, particularly focusing on how this move disproportionately impacts the LGBTQ+ community. Covering examples from Florida cities like Orlando, Key West, and Miami, the conversation highlights the erasure of symbols significant to the LGBTQ+ community and memorials su...
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Aug. 20, 2025

Drag Queen Names Based on Trauma

Join Bryan and Jon as they dive into a hilarious and random conversation following a long day at jury duty. They discuss the latest seasonal treats from Trader Joe's, the drudgery of courtrooms, and come up with hysterical drag queen names inspired by personal traumas. Laugh along as they brainstorm names like Trigger Mortis, Betty No Friends, and Holly Hindsight, wrapping up with a humorous list that includes the outrageous Crystal Methy and Roe Funeral. YouTube Channel:⁠ https://www.youtube.c...
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Aug. 18, 2025

From LA Dreams to Texas Farms with Ben from 'It's Been a Week' Podcast

In this lively episode, we welcome Ben from the 'It's Been a Week' podcast in our first cross-over to share his adventurous journey from Hollywood to Texas. Join us as we dive into Ben's transitions from glitzy West Hollywood to the Texas countryside, his experiences dealing with COVID-19, and adapting to a life far removed from LA's fast-paced lifestyle. Ben opens up about his huge array of farm animals, his take on monogamy, and his unique approach to living a balanced life with eco-friendly d...
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Aug. 13, 2025

Midlife Crisis or Just Another Rebrand?

In this engaging episode, Bryan and Jon delve into the concept of midlife crises and how they are dealing with their own transitions in their 40s. They discuss a range of topics from personal anecdotes about family, gardening, and birdwatching, to more profound reflections on maturing and personal growth. The conversation takes a humorous and insightful look at the stereotypical midlife crisis and reframes it as a period of self-discovery and reinvention. Tune in for a mix of laughter, wisdom, a...
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Aug. 11, 2025

Jim Verraros: From American Idol to 'Explicit' and Beyond

Join hosts Jon and Bryan for a powerful conversation with original American Idol heartthrob, Jim Verraros. Jim gets candid about his groundbreaking journey, from being a top finalist on the show's first season to releasing his latest six-track EP, "Explicit." You'll hear the real story behind his experience as an openly gay artist in the early 2000s, his successful transition into acting with the "Eating Out" film series, and his inspiring return to music after a career hiatus. Jim also opens ...
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Aug. 7, 2025

Living as a Gay Man in 2025

In this episode, Bryan and Jon dive into various aspects of their lives in 2025, starting with updates on personal matters like Jon’s thriving garden and Bryan’s French Bulldog Piper's hopeful medical prognosis. They then explore the broader topic of what it's like to be gay in 2025, discussing societal progress and setbacks, personal fears, and the unique experiences they face. The conversation also touches on topics like stigmas, acceptance, and the challenges posed by extreme political views....
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Aug. 4, 2025

Understanding Gay Math

In this lively and humorous discussion, Jon and Bryan dive into the concept of 'gay math,' exploring how it affects various aspects of their lives. From getting ready and arriving fashionably late to brunch, to the unique ways they measure time and social interactions, the hosts share personal anecdotes and funny insights. They also touch on weight perceptions, gym routines, and the often complicated task of splitting bills. This episode is a fun and relatable look at the cultural quirks within ...