Episodes

Join hosts Jon and Bryan as they welcome their close friend David to discuss their shared history, from meeting in a gay softball league to navigating life as gay dads. David shares insights into his life in Portland, Oregon with his husband Rafael and their 4-year-old son Simon. The conversation highlights the unique experiences of gay parenthood, including the unexpected challenges and joys. David also introduces his new venture, Gaddies (HeyGaddies.com), aimed at creating visibility and commu...

Join Bryan and Jon as they dive into a hilarious and candid discussion about a wide range of names, debating whether they sound gay or straight. From personal anecdotes about their pets to an imaginative game that assigns sexual orientations and personality traits to names like Billy, William, Edward, Eddie, Jimmy, and more, this episode is packed with fun and humor. As they navigate through their witty banter, they also touch on meaningful moments about their pets' health and life challenges. A...

Join Bryan and Jon as they discuss their self-care routines, including gym visits and acupuncture experiences. They delve into the intricacies of gaydar, sharing personal anecdotes from growing up to the present day in 2025. The conversation covers cultural differences in Europe, the challenges of modern dating, and a humorous envisioning of how gay animals might interact. The duo wraps up with thoughts on how their perception of gaydar has evolved over time and playful banter about potential fu...

In this episode, Bryan and Jon discuss their experiences and reflections as they navigate their forties. They dive into topics such as the differences between being 40 and being in their forties, the challenges and victories in maintaining physical health, and the importance of mental and spiritual well-being. The conversation also covers personal anecdotes about aging, the benefits of acupuncture, and the value of living in the moment. Join them for a candid and insightful discussion about embr...

In this episode, we dive into a heartfelt discussion between two family members about the balance between being a fun uncle and a strict parent. The conversation covers topics like organizing kids' toys, the challenges of parenting versus visiting, and the importance of building lasting relationships with children. They reflect on their own upbringing and the dynamic between their dads, and how they're carrying that legacy forward. With humor and heartfelt moments, this episode highlights the jo...

In this episode, Jon and Bryan delve into the often frustrating and sometimes hilarious aspects of air travel. They share personal experiences, from the quirks of airport culture to the chaos of boarding and deplaning. The conversation touches on the inefficiencies of boarding zones, the scramble to find the right seat, and the unspoken social dynamics of flying. They also highlight the rare moments of kindness amidst the madness. Tune in for tips, humor, and relatable travel stories that might ...

Join Jon and Bryan in this laugh-out-loud episode where they play a revealing game of 'Never Have I Ever.' From slipping in the shower while singing to Britney Spears, to confessing awkward moments and childhood crushes, this conversation covers it all. They dig deep into their most embarrassing experiences, including using someone else's toothbrush, lying about dating histories, and much more. Don't miss out on this candid and fun-filled episode! YouTube Channel:⁠ https://www.youtube.com/@OutL...

Join Jon and Bryan in this hilariously insightful episode as they dive into the 'Is This Gay?' game, focusing on US vacation destinations. From Las Vegas to San Francisco, and Santa Fe to Washington DC, they debate whether these cities are 'Gaycation', 'Staycation', or 'Naca'. Learn intriguing fun facts, laugh at witty banter, and discover the LGBTQ+ vibes of these cities. A must-watch for anyone curious about how gay your favorite US city might be! YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@Out...

Join Jon and Bryan as they take a trip down memory lane discussing the early days of the internet, AOL chat rooms, and the evolution of online communication. They reminisce about dial-up internet, away messages, and the significance of screen names. They also share personal stories about formative experiences in AOL chat rooms, including a possible interaction with Lance Bass and the challenges of navigating online spaces as teenagers. Reflecting on how much the internet has changed, they explor...

Join us as we recount our recent trip to New York, including an inspiring gala hosted by OutRight International, an organization fighting for LGBTQ+ rights in developing countries. We discuss the historic Stonewall Inn uprising, the origins of Pride, and the ongoing struggles for LGBTQ+ rights. Reflecting on our Pride season and current political climate, this video emphasizes the importance of love, advocacy, and community action. Happy Pride! YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudA...

In this episode of Out Loud and Laughing, Jon and Bryan dive into a spirited discussion about their favorite pop divas, including Britney Spears, Pink, Madonna, and Beyonce. Expect playful banter, sizzling hot takes, and even a bizarre NyQuil dream story involving alligators. Tune in to hear why Britney is a feeling, Pink's unique crossover appeal, and why Madonna and Beyonce stir up some controversy. As always, laughter and candid moments are guaranteed. YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.co...

In this episode, Bryan and Jon reflect on their childhood selves in 1996, a pivotal year symbolizing both simplicity and struggle. They read heartfelt letters addressed to their 12-year-old selves, offering wisdom, comfort, and hope from their future perspectives. Both letters highlight their unique journeys through LGBTQ+ identity, cultural challenges, personal growth, and the importance of love and friendship. The conversation takes a thoughtful turn as they discuss the significance of Pride M...